Lovin:What about Ex......




Since Monday I made a post, I have been thinking what to write next.
I searched the internet for ideas.
But the most trending topics this week was the 2015 Oscars.
Am not much of a 'film' person and worst off I didn't watch the Oscars so how can I write on something I don't know much about?
Still   scratching my brain for ideas.
Thursday morning as early as 2.30am, I ran into this gif on the internet.
My first reaction was 'a big laugh out loud' moment and I decided to share.
My mind also raced with some questions like:
What is your thought about being friends with an ex after a break up???
My answer, No one ever enters a relationship and 'jinx' it for failure.
The expectation is friendship, love and happily ever after (at least as a she, I don't know for guys)
But when 'things fall apart', it is time to 'kiss' you good bye, wishing you the best I wish myself.
I don't 'buy' the idea of being friends after a break up though we are not enemies.
 But sweet heart we can't be friends.
My life will be less complicated.
We broke up for a reason, 'no hard feelings', let's keep it that way.
If we still want to work things out, it's a different thing but besides that there's no 'us ' and we need the distance to refocus our emotions.
What's your opinion about being friends with an ex.
Let's get talking, share for more insight.
Please drop your comments, would like to hear from you.
Have a restful weekend.
Love always.


LOVE ME Always




February, on the blog and still loving.....
Last week I posted once as against twice, like I promised.
Sorry for that!
Before now I never gave much thought to 'self-love' because I thought it literally meant being 'self-centered', 'arrogant' or 'proud'.
But recently I read an article 'Dare to be Different' and I said to myself there's nothing wrong with self-love.
Self-love is being able to discover your uniqueness and accept yourself the way you are.
Sometimes in life, you meet someone that think that you're too slim or fat, tall or short but really that's their opinion.
Self- love says, "I know am not like you but I love myself the way I am".
The five fingers are not the same so how can you except me to be like you.
Variety is the spice of life.
Self -love also is self -discovery.
You know yourself, your strength and weakness.
Self -love is accepting yourself and knowing that you're special.
Celebrate yourself; love yourself well enough to be determined to achieve your goals.
This last week of February 2015, show yourself some love and remember to stay positive always.
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Valentine Blues.....



Thank God it's Monday!!!!!
Beautiful day after a refreshing weekend.
I saw so much love this weekend that made me believe all the more in love.
Couples holding hands, openly showing affection.
Love is beautiful.
Am so happy I participated in the singles program.
As for meeting 'him', let's leave that 'gist' for another day.
It was a Christian program held on Valentine’s Day, divided into 2 sections, the interactive and prayer section.
During the interactive, you are allowed to ask questions on real life issues that affect you as a single.
Anyone can give his/her opinion to the question and the facilitator will moderate.
I want to share some of the interesting tips I learnt with you:

1: Being single doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. You're intelligent and talented. Love yourself.
2: Single but not lonely, don't disconnect yourself from life and people.
3: Prepare yourself to meet the kind of person you desire.
Also don't cage yourself to the past.




A failed relationship only shows you're human.Get over it and open your heart for the best.
I hope you find these tips as useful as I did.
Let’s learn more, share your opinion.
Drop comments and connect with me, it’s all about you and me making the most out of life.
Love all the way…..